Reason #2: She’s unavailable or just not ready. She still wants to hangout. This is the inner confidence that I talk about a lot! Question: My ex sent me a text after months of no contact. She might thought I'm being serious looking for marriage which I'm not but maybe I didn't something let her feel like that. Be interesting and funny If it's not healthy then yes it's time to release. Yes, I know that this can be painful to hear but this is the truth. Nevertheless, our date was still scheduled to go to the movies. I’m a master now, you have no idea what this has done to my dating experience. :) Thanks for sharing this information about how to handle my own mindset and emotions, whenever I'm in a relationship with a woman. Invest in the things that you are going to feel comfortable with, analyze yourself and then choose to learn from someone like me or someone else who preaches this. If she needs the support then support her but also show her that you will give her personal space and not become overbearing. is that she only wanted attention. This is one of the most concrete signs he is missing you. But I confessed all on the phone after she went back and she told me she likes me as a friend. She approached me and we start talking as I wanted to present me as totally another person she known me before and to make her see what is she missing. Thank you so much! Don’t continue to pour salt on a wound that isn’t healed if you know what I mean. Usually, it is hard to return the things of your ex after a breakup if you still … I don't know what to do now... Plz guide me ma'am. I really had no Idea of what happens . If you miss her too, then tell her! I am a lesbian and appreciate the blog. This happens often when you put a woman on a pedestal and you look at her as the prize and forget you’re a prize as well. Question: My ex sent me a text after months of no contact. Apollonia. They say that when you’re missing someone they probably feel the same way. I proposed a classmate and she rejected me but she always sticks to me and always say she wants me to be happy. Sure, she might pester you for another couple of days and her texts might turn nasty. She may suggest there’s some new movie that she’d like to see or that she loves going to the beach. and have been talking to her almost every day since. I would not focus on an outcome with her and not be available too much for her at this moment. Or does she actually like me. Apollonia. Note that misses and needs have different meanings. Question: My ex-girlfriend says it’s over and there is no chance for us but she is still calling me and says things like it’s a shame it turned out like this and I saw you today and you looked sad. I haven't messaged her out of work since Thursday last week - she hasn't either. We sometimes flirt but if I tell her again about how I feel, she always say she does not want to here that. Why? Another reason why you might be thinking, “She rejected me but still acts interested“ is that she feels that you are more of a friend than anything else. Figure out why she’s texting you out of the blue and think if reconnecting with her is worth your time. Click here for instructions on how to enable JavaScript in your browser. We even went out on her birthday - i skipped work and made excuses - it was a great day (just 6 weeks ago now). Now she talks to me replies me. Awesome! We kinda work at the same office block then she comes to see me at work and asks me why I didnt text her back or check on her and telling me she was sick and she did not come to work yesterday. Many, many thanks!! As a consolation, you can also use this opportunity to plan a date sometime in the near future. Women frustrate me and although I have been applying my own technique—I would tell myself that I am free! Listen, you may like this girl and think she’s perfect but if you want a chance with her, then you have to make sure you do not give up your sense of control and really master your attraction skills when it comes to trying to re-attract her. And then I told her that since she did not see it that way we could just keep it friendly. My response is always then she didn’t really like you in the first place and you can’t make water and oil fit. Hi Steven, Why are you still spending time with a woman who rejected you? When asking her out at the end of the date, be sure to ask her to do something she told you during the date she finds exciting. Perhaps you're doing too much and trying to prove things to her, giving her gifts, etc. As a coach, who also happens to be a woman, I have coached thousands of men in this type of situation. You need to make her accountable for the words that come out of her mouth. She’s so used to being by herself that she can’t help but stay that way, even when she’s not alone. Thanks for stopping by and commenting on She rejected me but still acts interested. She was awesome, I met her through friends and they kept telling me she was crazy about me, but after 4 dates of not seeming interested and barely any communication outside I lost interest. It was you, who was beside her when she was weak. So I acted like"girl if you want me, you'll need to do something - actually I don't need you". However, a Libra woman does run the risk of having terribly high expectations of the men she dates. We dated for 2yrs and just this February 2020,she told me she is not interested. You don’t invite a girl back to your place or hers. Hey Annette. very much 'out of sight, out of mind.' Is it possible I might come on as too intense whenever I'm dealing with a woman I like to know? She asks for your picture. I would need to know more about the situation to better coach you through. Should i continue to maintain silence and let her miss me and just maintain a professional relationship? So what do you think? If she told you no, believe she meant no. Hi coach, thanks for your helpfull tips, i choose to keep calm and carry on! Apollonia. Thank you for reading our blog and We are sorry to hear what you are going through. Doesn't matter how much gentleman and kind I always am with women. Missing you isn’t just about how long it’s been since you were away. Never in a million years would I suggest any man be with a woman that does this to him. You talk to other girls. After a while Thanks for reading my blog about she rejected me but still acts interested. She knew that it would make you feel better. Well, I guess it's better to avoid those egomaniacs by moving forward, just like you suggested. But your relationships will soon end in divorce or breakup. Apollonia, Hi Apollonia. Thanks you for your reply and answer. Women do this, we like feeling good and if there's a guy that can do that for us, we will try and keep him around.